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The fact that "Googling someone" has
become
a widely-used phrase is just one indicator of how the Internet and the
readily available public data it contains has changed the way people
interact with each other. Because information is now linked by various
different sources and can be search with relative ease, it would not be
surprising to Google
someone and learn everything about that person,
from past accomplishments to marital status to a current address.
To meet someone that would rather not
talk
about the past or who might avoid personal questions about certain
topics is not uncommon. For those that meet these types of singles in
the course of online dating, that secrecy can be disconcerting and with
each avoided question, suspicion can grow over the trustworthiness of
the person behind the computer monitor and screen name. While it may be
easier to get a marriage status answer out of a potential date, getting
questions answered about a criminal past or sex offender status will
likely be more difficult to approach.
It should come then as no shock that
web
singles have begun to be more savvy about the way they are screening
those that they have met online to not only verify background
information told to them, but to dig up extra tidbits as well. The
level of fact gathering depends greatly on how far an online dater is
willing to push the envelope and that envelope can be pushed relatively
far with little more than a name or address.
One of the ways broadband users can
access
this information is through web services like
USSearch.com
that provide detailed information on a particular
person's criminal record, pending lawsuits, home value and a
variety of other traits that collectively are commonly known as a
background check. This may seem an extreme step to some, but verifying
the identity of a potential romantic partner is, to some, simply an
exercise in caution when dealing with little more than an email address
and a name.
Of course, there are varying levels of
data
gathering and simply Googling someone can be a cursory way to learn
more about a potential mate. Naturally, dating singles with common
names are often difficult to pin down in a Google search, so those
thinking about meeting a John Smith for a drink might have better luck
with a more specific method.
By taking the investigation one step
further, the National Sex
Offender Registry is available on the web for
those looking to at least put to bed the fear that they could be
conversing with a criminal sexual predator. All people convicted of a
sex-related crime are listed and while it does represent a bit of a
deeper dig into someone's past, finding out if someone is a
sex
predator can readily be asserted as an acceptable use of the
information that may be gathered.
While that may satisfy some, there are
services that cater to a more complete view of a potential
date's
past and present. That is where a website like USSearch can
come in handy, offering a full slate of information on a particular
person that can be derived from as little as a full name and a city of
residence. All of the typical background screening tidbits are
instantly available, giving those online a secure look at just who they
are chatting and exchanging emails with before ever putting themselves
in harm's way on a date or other meeting. Different levels of
inquiries are available, ranging in cost and complexity, offering the
ability to tailor a search as cursory or as entirely thorough.
Using a site like
USSearch.com does not necessarily indicate a lack of trust in
humanity
in general, but more indicates thoroughness in getting to know your
date and his or her past before getting romantically involved. Web
matchmaking puts the extra barrier of a computer and a screen pseudonym
into the process, one that can be effectively circumvented through
nationwide people finder services like
USSearch.
In fact, it is not a bad idea to
investigate
one's own background record that is available to anyone with
the
ability to pay and the desire to investigate. Getting this kind of
verification and knowing what others can learn by simply paying a small
fee can really open eyes to the power of the Internet as an information
gathering tool and the kind of data floating around in cyber space,
ready for the picking.
The Internet's ability to
shield a
person's real identity through a screen moniker and made up
profile will likely always be a part of the internet dating experience
and while those that are deceptive in their efforts may be in the
minority, they do exist. To combat that bleak view of online morality,
web sites like USSearch.com
and even a simple Google
search can do much to assuage some of those fears. No one wants to find
out that Dave93840 is really a married, 46 year-old man with prior
convictions instead of the single, 39 year-old man he claims to be and
these background services can help avoid that kind of realization.
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